Being Authentic Using One of Our Senses

By Erwin Parengkuan –TALKINC Founder &Play Facilitator

Writing I am referring this time to our 5 senses.Of course the sense of sight provides big impact in communication, then the sense of hearing too have an impact on the sounds we hear.The sense of smell becomes relatively because no will not smell someone other than too extreme ( too fragrant or vice versa), while our sense of taste certainly won't use.There is another thing, namely the sense of taste (kinesthetic) which will provide the greatest and longest-lasting influence on the impressions we convey when talk.

Sure When we have a conversation with the other person, both of our senses are good vision and auditory or hearing will have the most influence big.We will observe his appearance and pay attention to his body language, besides Of course, listen to the tone of voice.Well, these two senses will then provide information to us about a conclusion we have reached.The first one Of course, what do we feel from the person we are talking to?Is it a private person? open or closed?Or it feels very “cold”with a lot “fortress”so we feel that the person is distant from us. This means that the person is not an open person. So that we will conclude that the person has difficulty building relationships with opponents talk. So, the conclusion is that we become uncomfortable when the other person talks stiff and closed.

Though, to be an open and warm person who is always wanted by everyone, why?Because when we are open and warm, we become less constructive “fortress”and making a friendly impression will draw you into a pleasant relationship.Remember, we are social creatures who cannot living alone, we always need other people in this life, and in this era disrupted as we are now, we cannot be successful without other people.Said “one man show”is a term for colonialists who are no longer exist again in today's modern communication world.By activating it the relationship that we will have, of course “feel”that appears will create They are always looking forward to your presence. 

I see we are open and have no other agenda, beyond the purpose of our conversation, Of course we will conduct ourselves as best as possible.Usually they come in The extrovert category of personality can easily carry themselves whatever they like exists.Meanwhile, those who are introverts mostly encounter difficulties internally displays his image.My tip for you is never viewing people we have just met as strangers.Consider them like your close friends, so you can give a warm impression to them interlocutor and keeps you as you are.Because once again, our sense of taste will remain within us the longest.And it will affect your long-term relationship.So be real, be authentic!