Coming to our senses

By Erwin Parengkuan

This title is light but has deep meaning, why? My writing will tell about us, about me and you and us, Of course, as humans, we are part of the five senses important in building a relationship.Sense of sight, sense of hearing, Sense of Taste, Sense of Smell and Sense of Taste.These Five Senses are me already sorted based on how we interact in communication.From Of these five senses, only 1 we don't use, namely the sense of taste.

Let's start discussing it, talking about the senses Sight, or in communication is Visual, the way humans see of course A lot of influence comes from the eyes, what we see with the senses that provide it the biggest impact of this?When we see someone, of course their appearance comes first first we saw and observed his body movements.When Our appearance is general, of course we don't stand out.Just the appearance appropriate and suitable for me is more than enough.Meanwhile body language someone we observe will make someone look open or closed.A “slight” body movement will give a different impression with a “light” and relaxed body.These senses once again have an impact greatest in communication.As we know, if you take a parables, films are a perfect example.a visual delight for the eyes we are very pampered.The clearer the color displayed, it will appear different impression.Films with unattractive images will irritate the eyes we are tired too.Eventually it becomes unattractive.

Likewise with the auditory sense, where the intonation, sound pressure that we hear or emit will strengthen/weaken a person's impression.Our ears will clearly catch a message.Does it sound what it looks like?and the Senses of Sight and Senses Hearing will always continue to intersect.Again, like a film with the right music scoring, it produces a perfect effect in an image.Sense of Hearing the role is not too big compared to the sense of sight, and secondly This sense is decisive in its impact, but is the most easily forgotten. For example, as years pass, we will not remember someone's visual and auditory memories compared with the following Indra.

Indera Perasa, kinesthetic begitu disebut, adalah Indera yang paling lama bertahan dalam ingatan kita. Artinya bila kita bicara? Apa yang kita rasakan? Takut? Senang? Gelisah? Tidak fokus? Terlalu bersemangat? Atau berlebihan? Indera Perasa ini yang akan tersimpan jauh lebih lama dalam diri setiap orang. Inipun termasuk strategi dalam membangun hubungan. Bagaimana kesan kita terhadap orang yang kita jumpai? Membangun hubungan memerlukan kemahiran dan keluwesan. Seperti memperlakukan siapapun yang kita jumpai seperti kawan kita, tentu kita akan tampil apa adanya tanpa dibuat-buat atau terpaksa, tentu kita akan sangat mudah membangunnya dan dengan sendirinya membuat sebuah relasi berjalan dengan natural. Kitapun sangat senang bertemu orang yang apa adanya “seperti warna asli-nya.” Buat saya, indera ini justru memegang peranan penting dalam interaksi/komunikasi umat di dunia ini apapun situasi maupun kondisi yang ada dalam hidup seseorang. Indera ini adalah “jitu” yang menjadi penentu kita dalam memilih perkawanan, dalam memilih hubungan. Bila kita sudah tidak “klop” lagi, tentu akan sangat sulit situasinya, dan seseorang akan memilih menghindar dari seseorang yang dianggap tidak membuat nyaman dirinya.

Meanwhile, in my opinion, the sense of smell plays a role the smallest in terms of communication impact because it only completes the third The senses we just discussed.When we smell good, or don't emit a smell stinging in the body or the perfume we wear, all relationships will be right in his condition.