Become a Public Speaker with Weight

The modern world is very noisy, especially on social media, resulting in everyone easily spilling the beanshe was nervousabout the hardships of life or increasingly narrow career paths.Layoffs, anxiety, and anger are all spilling out everywhere.

Freedom of speech is everyone's right that cannot be limited, anyone can share whatever they think and feel.Unfortunately, freedom of speech is not heard, because we do not use the right methods and strategies to convey a message.Instead of wanting to be heard, instead we are covered in noise from other similar voices and we become frustrated with this.

At LPK TALKINC, we teach everyone to first recognize themselves for all their existing potential, both those they already have and those that are still hidden.A person's ability to know who he is is the main thing in learning at our school.Starting from writing down all your strengths, weaknesses in notes, and exploring your needs and main goals to become a skilled communicator.Unfortunately, in every class we present, many participants/students do not know their life's purpose.Maybe looking out too much, then they becomeinsecureand confused about the life goals you want to achieve.Because if the answer is only for the word success, that's not enough for me.

We must know exactly what we want, how important it is for us to achieve and have it, so that there is a strong urge to grow and become superior human beings.Some participants in the class know the purpose so that we teachers can easily guide and provide appropriate direction/views.

Having alone time without the distraction of gadgets is the main key for someone to rediscover who they are and their purpose in life.Being alone and quiet in the morning is the best thing to do.When we are still and calm, the clarity that we seek and desire will certainly emerge.Success in life and career always requires communication skills.

After 21 years in classes with various types of people and positions, I can conclude that communication has 2 equally important weights.The first isUnderstanding.Understanding, as discussed at the beginning of this article, is to understand ourselves first, then we can understand other people, or the person we are talking to.When we have this understanding, we will not speak carelessly, either verbally or non-verbally.We will have a "brake" not to make a sound, let alone curse on social media.

Social media is the face of our true character.With the track record that we have established, it will be easy for other people to identify/label us.It takes a big soul for everyone to accept themselves, nodenial, do not blame external factors.Great communicators are those who are done with themselves.So, saidUnderstandingbecomes a person's most important capital to be accepted wherever he is.

The second, isPositivity.The negative words that we often say will make no one like us.This is the next big challenge.We know negative thoughts damage a person's relationships and mental health.Just like water that is continuously given negative words, with water that is given positive words, we will see the difference.Water with negative words will be dull and black, on the other hand, water with positive words will remain clear.Water is a living compound, just like us humans.Imagine this example would have a big impact on someone on how they communicate.

These two weights will be our main foundation in becoming a good communicator, so if we want to be good, all you have to do is think about what benefits will be given to the audience?That our daily lives are the best practice for honing our ability to train our speech flow.Starting from knowing the context and compiling content.

Write and practice before speaking.Record and evaluate the results.Be honest with yourself when you see the results.Then, repeat again so that there is better mastery of the material by conveying it appropriately.Then after that, you will discover new patterns that will become the basis for communicating.Apublic speakerthose who are knowledgeable will never tire of exploring themselves and discovering various communication patterns from each different audience.

So, are you ready to hone your speaking and being skillspublic speakerinfluential?Get started now!

By: Erwin Parengkuan