The Law of Attraction

By Erwin Parengkuan

In every teaching session in class, whether we talk about communication, increasing self-confidence, skillful presentation skills, etc., it always cannot be separated from the subject, namely us;man.We are the main actors in carrying out this life.In the 24 hours of time we have, we have full power to interpret it, regulate it and follow up on all the things we do.Some times when we pay special attention to those who are super busy but can effectively maximize their time, it will make us wonder "what has he done with his time so that everything he does can be achieved and empowered?"

In a session with leaders from a pioneer property company some time ago, there was an occasion where I discussed the law of attraction.The cool term emerged when a book writer from Australia named Rhonda Byrne in 2006 made "The Secret" along with a video bundled with the book which sold very well on the market.One of the leaders asked me about manifestation."Why can someone, through self-belief, realize what he wants?"that's roughly the question.Wow, an interesting question that I have never asked in class.

In fact, each of us can realize and do whatever we want in this world, but we need to realize that we are complex human beings with all kinds of personality spectrum, behavior and even the way a person communicates a message.The root is that we must be able to know ourselves well and be able to navigate it, carry out what we want, and even pivot when conditions do not match our expectations before a major "disaster" strikes.I told the leader to slowly get rid of the negative feelings stored within me.Why is that? Because the law of attraction will attract whatever is within us. When our feelings are disturbed, the energy released is also different. On the other hand, when we are excited, many people we meet will be carried away by the enthusiasm we exude."If you "overthink" (apparently the leader is this type of person) then the team you lead will be completely afraid of producing new innovations!"I said.We also know that innovation will emerge when someone has a positive mental attitude.

Well, the complexity that exists within us as humans who live in this crazy era demands a person's skill in selecting the "consumption" that he wants to include in his thoughts, feelings and body.When only good things are entered, the same results will be produced, and vice versa.The law of attraction has been discovered since Roman times and was popularized again by Byrne as a reminder for all of us.So for the leader, I sharpened him so as not to overthink.I observed that the aura on his face, which looked gloomy, did not radiate positive energy.I advised him to start meditating and exercising regularly.It seems that he hasn't done these two things for a long time, because the workload really disturbs his mind due to the increasingly challenging demands and competition in the property business.

Everything comes from us and we all have to rearrange it.Because any of us has complete authority in choosing what we like and don't like.So that when this awareness exists, everyone can become more successful and happy according to what they want and it will manifest as expected.